She
starts her essay by quoting Kat, a white 14-year-old. Kat shares her opinion
about why her friends are moving from MySpace to Facebook and she says that
MySpace is just old and boring; but then she adds that MySpace is more like
ghetto or whatever. Reading Kat’s opinion about this made me realized that I
had never thought about MySpace vs. Facebook in such way. I thought that
MySpace simply stopped being as popular around me because a new thing had come
out and like anything, when the newer thing comes out, people seem to grow more
interest for it simply because it’s new and different. I have never been huge
on social media, so perhaps due to that, I had never noticed that teens
actually had these kinds of opinions about it. As I reflected on what I’ve
heard about MySpace throughout the years, I realized that I have not had many
conversations about this. I recall hearing from friends and older family
members that MySpace was more for bands and music rather that for you to be
friends with your friends and that was their main reason for not having a
MySpace account. I also heard from relatives that they no longer used MySpace
because it was for younger kids. So, some of the comments I recall, kind of
match with some parts that boyd talks about in her essay. Like teens saying
that they rather Facebook because their college friends had Facebook and not
MySpace.
Later in the essay, boyd quotes Tara,
a Vietnamese-American 16-years-old saying that Facebook seems safer but that
she doesn’t know what exactly makes Facebook safer, that just from what people
say Facebook seems safer. Her comment about Facebook vs. MySpace made me think
that she prefers Facebook because others around her seems to be saying
something positive about it. This makes me wonder if she would prefer MySpace
only if people around her think positively about it. Like many teenagers, Tara
is not sure as to why Facebook is safer but she thinks it is because that’s
what she has heard from others. I feel like nowadays the debate teenagers have
is in between Instagram vs, Facebook. Or, are they just having a profile on
each social media platform and not really making a choice? I noticed that majority
of the teens in boyd’s essay said that they moved from MySpace to Facebook because
their friends were on Facebook so they were on Facebook, too. This, in a way,
makes sense. In a teenager’s mind, wherever your friends are at is where you’ll
be. I don’t know if I’m right about this, but I think that many teenagers now
have multiple social media platforms because that’s where their friends are at
and they want to be where their friends are at.
Teens in boyd’s essay were also talking about the physical appearance options between MySpace and Facebook. A lot of the teens talked about MySpace having more options for you to personalize your page and really show more of your individuality while Facebook presented a more general look where everyone’s page pretty much looked the same. Some teens liked how MySpace had those features and other teens liked Facebook’s general look.
While the teens’ didn’t say that their preference between MySpace vs. Facebook had anything to do with race, ethnicity or class, boyd’s essay says that their reasons cannot be untangled from them.
The second reading for this week was Self-Segregation: Why It’s So Hard for
Whites to Understand Ferguson by Robert P. Jones. This article talks about
this incident and through the article we were reminded about the fact that since
the incident, it was pretty clear that whites saw what happened very
differently than blacks in our community. The article presented several
statistics showing whites and blacks views about this incident. Some showed
that most believed that this issue was part of a boarder pattern while others
thought that issue was getting more attention than it deserved. I think that
since the article presented several statistics and polls, it made it clearer
for the reader to see what the author was showing rather than thinking that the
article was written only from the author’s perspective.
As
I read through the article, I was overwhelmed by the differences the polls were
showing. One of the sections of the article that caught my attention the most
was when a black man shared what he was taught by his mother as a young black
man. He was told not to run in public, definitely not to run while holding
something in his hands. He was told not to talk back to the police and to never,
ever leave home without identification. This is just crazy for me to read because
I know is true but I just can’t take this as a reality. I see these black males
as victims of society because they shouldn’t be concern about this just based
on the color of their skin. You would think that we are way over that since I thought
America had come a long way regarding racism but this article showed that it is
still very present in our society.
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